Wednesday 02/07/2024

Didn’t even think about a walk, though I should have. Did my laundry and while that was running, edited the Strollin video to have the right order of songs. And had an appointment with Leah, the in-house hairdresser.

In the evening we had a lecture by Prof Emerita Myra Strober, who says she has “flunked retirement three times,” meaning she keeps getting dragged into other projects, most recently a book, Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life’s Biggest Decisions. She gives a good talk, amusing with lots of good stories from her own life.

One of her stories sounded exactly like stories we heard during the End of Life lecture series. Her second husband had Parkinson’s and was deteriorating; she got an urgent call to come to the hospital, where she was told the doctor wanted to insert a feeding tube. She said, he has a POLST that explicitly rules that out; the doctor said that the electronic copy in the records wouldn’t do, he needed a physical copy. She has to rush home and get the form in order to prevent unwanted care. Soon after she observed the problem, her husband didn’t have a blockage, he was actively spitting the food out: voluntarily not eating. They moved him to hospice care and he died soon after.

But that’s not the sort of decision her book is mainly about. Anyway, the event came off without any A/V hitches, so another one done.

Tuesday 02/06/2024

Took the standard walk, since I couldn’t yesterday. Then sat down at 9:30 to write something for the writers group that started at 10:45. The cue was “write about a color.” I wrote about “Beige”. I’ll put it at the end.

After a quick lunch I warmed up the auditorium for the full rehearsal of the Strollin’ into the 60s event. And quickly found out that, without telling me, the other organizers had changed the order of some of the songs. So my video didn’t match the program. So I have to remake the video tomorrow. Not that big a deal, but annoying. Anyway, various aspects of rehearsing ran until nearly 4pm. I did my bit to general applause, so that was good.

Here’s “Beige”. And yes I know the 3270 terminal case was… metal? I think? So it doesn’t really count. I should have used a Wyse or Tektronix terminal from the early 70s.

Monday 02/05/2024

A day of accomplishments. First off I solved the vexing issue where the sound from the new Blu-Ray player came out but the video did not. I knew it had to do with the fact that the player was hooked up to a big-ass Yamaha receiver, which in turn drives the TV and speaker system. Last night I downloaded and read the manual for the receiver, which kinda indicated that you could hook anything to its HDMI inputs but only the formats that suited the TV hooked to the output would get through. So I realized, OK, the player shakes hands with the receiver and the receiver says, I can take anything, whatta ya got? and the player says, I’m a super modern player I can send anything, and they settle on the max, 4K resolution. But then the receiver says, 4K won’t suit my old TV, it only does 1080p, and doesn’t pass the video through.

So the answer was to hook the player directly to the TV so I could see its output (because when the player shakes hands with the TV they agree on whatever the TV can handle) and then use its setup menu to set it to output a max resolution of 1080p.

Now when I connect it to the receiver again, the receiver gets a 1080p video signal and passes it right along to the TV. It worked and I was very pleased with myself. This was all before 9am, mind you.

Then at 9am I had a date with Lois for a tech squad call, and was able to resolve three problems with Gmail and MacOS for her. No bugs, just using things the wrong way.

Which led to 10am when I went to the auditorium to set up for Oscar’s book talk. This was the deal where he is talking about the book Passing and showing clips from the movie. But the video clips had been prepared and were shown by his buddy David Richardson, so all I had to do was turn the system on and set things up, then hand over to Richardson to run the video.

Right after lunch at 1pm I went up to 11 to help Alice set up the mics for a 3pm Chinese New Year party. She had had a problem yesterday trying it out, but she had now solved her own problem before I got there, so we just went over a couple of things and I could leave.

I went to FOPAL. I had set up my section ready for the sale, on Saturday. But I neglected to put up the “HOLD” flag so I was afraid the sorters would have put some donations out for me. As it happened there was only one box, which I quickly disposed of. Set the Hold flag so nothing more would be put out, and came home. Spent a nice remainder of the afternoon napping and playing the guitar. I really have a nice life.

Sunday 02/04/2024

Remade the Strollin video as requested during rehearsal, shortening the intro to “California Girls”. The Beach Boys really had a long slow intro; I cut 18 seconds off it. That’s so the singers who are lip-syncing to it don’t have to stand there mute for 20+ seconds before the song starts, which is an eternity on stage.

The SWBB carpool was down to just me and Patty. David G was off to some family thing in the City, and Lenny said she had been exposed to Covid and was isolating for a couple of days. Stanford trounced UCLA quite handily.

Saturday 02/03/2024

It’s the pre-sale week at FOPAL. Monday looks very busy for me, so I decided to clean up my section today. That took a couple of hours. After lunch it was time for the Good Times volunteers who are going to be singing along, barbershop style, with the Beach Boys, to rehearse. I turned on the auditorium systems, and took my computer with the videos down and connected it into the sound system and provided accompaniment. I also snuck in a rehearsal of my own number before anyone else arrived.

Afterward, my package of new HDMI cables had arrived from Amazon. So I went up to 11 to try again to make the new blu-ray player work with that system. David G had suggested maybe it was the cable. But a new, top-spec 4K video cable didn’t make any difference. Later I wrote an email to the staff IT guys asking for help.

Friday 02/02/2024

Yesterday I got a notice in the mail that my car registration was due, and that a smog check was required. So this morning I went out to get smogged. With that out of the way I did a few other things. At quarter to six I brought the car around to drive my car pool buddies to the SWBB game. This was a miserable game, a home loss to USC and their freshman phenom who scored 49 points. I am more an more sure I will not renew my season ticket next year.

Thursday 02/01/2024

Finished up the Strollin video. Well, actually not, there are several more steps but the contents are complete.

At 9:30 joined Stew in the auditorium to test out the “karaoke screen”. It worked fine, putting the song lyrics that Stew has prepared on both screens at the same time.

I asked Stew, as the producer, whether I should sing with my guitar or with the original accompaniment. He was very much for the original record with drums and backing vocals. Which is great, much less stressful for me.

After lunch, the new blu-ray player I ordered arrived so I spent a frustrating couple of hours trying to install it. It worked perfectly connected to my own TV, and connected directly to the 11th floor TV, but it needs to be connected to a big receiver that switches between half a dozen sources, and drives the audio. And it doesn’t want to talk to the blu-ray player, or not completely. It passes the audio but not the video.

Wednesday 01/31/2024

Went for the standard walk in the morning, first time in some time. Then paid a couple of credit card bills, and filled out the E-sign forms from SFCU to put the name of the trust properly on the account.

Then I did something that I had woken up in the middle of the night and resolved to do. I got a youtube version of Who Put the Bomp — the song I am to perform as part of the upcoming Strollin 60s party — and extracted the audio from it. This I uploaded to each of three different websites that claim to use AI to extract the accompaniment from song, suppressing the vocalist. One did a better job than the others, although all three were adequate. I put that together with the picture of the Barry Mann album cover, as a video, and inserted it into the sequence.

Now I have the option. I have been practicing the hell out of Who Put the Bomp on the guitar, thinking I would perform it to my own accompaniment. But now I have the option of instead performing it karaoke-style to the original band. I don’t yet know which way to go on this.

Then I spent the rest of the morning finishing that video for the party, 55 minutes of solid oldies. To name just a few, Stop in the Name of Love, Up on the Roof, Only Love Can Break a Heart, Where the Boys Are, The Twist, Leader of the Pack, Good Golly Miss Molly, Sherry Baby… Don’t you wish you could come to this party?

After lunch I had scheduled a video clinic inviting any on the AV team who were interested, to watch me prep a video of a lecture. I had booked the Training Room with a big screen that I could put my laptop screen on. Only two came, Bert and Lennie, but they learned a bit I think. Lennie says she might try it in 2026 when she isn’t president of the resident association any more.

At 4:30 I had a personal help call from a neighbor on this floor to figure out how to watch netflix. I was going to show her how to get her Mac’s screen on the TV, but turns out, she has a nice new Vizio which has basically a Roku built into it. So quickly we had Netflix on the TV, native.

Then I took a scheduled tech squad call: Romy has a Brother printer that was putting dirty marks on the page. I’d never seen a printer like this, it has four separate toner rollers that dispense C, M, Y or Black toner powder. So not a simple ink-jet like I’m used to . We figured out that the black toner cartridge was leaking powder. After we had wiped off the loose powder inside the machine and replaced the toner cartridge (fortunately she had one), the problem was fixed.

Tuesday 01/30/2023

Such a day. I’m tuckered out and it’s only 4:30. The planned first activity was to go, with Leah, to see Charley Tucker, my agent at Prime Fiduciary. Back in August of 22 I set him/them up as the successor trustee on my trust. It’s been a while and I wanted to make sure they had my health directive with Leah as first responder, and meet her and verify that they would be able to pay her fees.

Before that, though, CH issues occurred. I had reported the problem with the 11th floor blu-ray player to the combined tech email list, and a couple of people had responded saying, did it every play blu-rays? Raising the issue, had I tried to make a plain DVD player play discs it didn’t recognize? That would be embarrassing. So I went up to 11 to check, no, it is plainly labeled “Blu-Ray” on top and sides. It’s just a piece of old gear. Then Stew wanted to test the karaoke screen on Thursday so I had to contact Gerald to get hold of it. So I emailed Gerald.

I fussed around finding all the documents I wanted to share with Charley. Then went down and brought the car up. At 10:20 Leah walked up and we went off to meet Charley. This meeting went very well. We talked about a lot of things, details of how my affairs can be handled when I am incapable or dead. Both I and Leah got a clearer picture of what the Fiduciaries can and will do. For example, if I get really old and am not completely incapable but just tired of paying my bills and such, I can just hand my affairs over to them and they would manage things on an hourly fee basis. At any rate, everybody knows who to call in what circumstances.

One point is, either Leah or the Channing House nurses will likely be the one to call the Neptune Society to take my remains away. So both should have info on my Neptune account. I had made copies of that info; when we got back I ran up to get a copy for Leah. But it’s on my to-do list to add that info the folder at the nurses’ station.

More on the to-do list of things to settle. Charley needs to know, is my SFCU account under my name or the trust’s? I had no clue. Who’s the beneficiary of my IRA? Ditto. So I emailed Howard at my financial advisors, I think he would know about the IRA. I contacted SFCU. They have both my name and Marian’s, and the trust, on the account, except it’s the old trust, not the current Survivor trust. Apparently I never told them Marian had died. Now they may need a death certificate. I think I still have one. I have a pretty good idea which file box to look in, anyway.

Got with Gerald in the afternoon and arranged about the karaoke screen for Thursday. Emailed Stew to tell him to be ready at 9:30 Thursday.

Mary M. filed an EPF for a new event, just two weeks ahead on 2/14. Full auditorium + zoom lecture event. The A/V volunteers commit to their tasks at the end of the month, for the next month. Added events like this mean I have to email the volunteers and beg for somebody to handle the event. Probably I will end up having to do it. I was fairly harsh with Mary M. but she wasn’t actually the perpetrator — she was acting for a person who is vacationing in Paris. How nice for her. It isn’t clear if the Paris person knew about the event any earlier or what. But how can we keep people from doing this? If you don’t book your event at least 30 days in advance, it won’t appear on the monthly calendar (which was just distributed around the building last week), but could we also say, “you better be ready to do the A/V yourself because the regular crew aren’t interested”?

Talked to my friend Pam, who it turns out is head of the committee that wants to show blu-rays on 11. Told her we should replace the player with a new Sony XBR-700, do they have money to reimburse me for the $180 cost? Yes they do, so I sat down and ordered one.

At the end of the day I was able to send Charley an email answering most of his open questions. I also completed purchase of a California-legal POLST bracelet, so will be carrying a DNR signal on my body. Not sure if I will actually wear it, but I’d been meaning to order one ever since the End of Life series a few months ago.

Such a day.

Monday 01/29/2024

First business today was to set up the auditorium for Oscar to rehearse. He is doing a book talk in a week, and his talk consists of him narrating the story of the book Passing by Nella Larsen, about a black woman passing as white in Harlem in the 1920s, while playing clips from the Netflix film of the book. He has a friend, David Richardson, who is doing his tech support: he has collected the movie clips on him computer and shows them on cue while Oscar talks. Richardson is real geek, arriving with not one but two backpacks full of gear. At least two Macbooks. So all I had to do was set up the system, lower the screen, then get out of the way.

The movie version of Passing, or what I’ve seen of during Oscar’s rehearsal, is very powerful. So many scenes have me just cringing, oh no, don’t do that, don’t say that agghhh you said it…

That out of the way, I went to FOPAL and processed two boxes of donations. Then bought coffee and peanut butter at the store next door. Back home, worked a bit on the Strollin’ video. Then it was time for Rhonda’s open meeting, this month discussing numerous changes in the ancillary fee schedule — none very significant to me — and some changes in Dining Services, again which seemed common-sense and no problem to me. Although like any hint of change in a senior residence, they provoked many questions and comments.

The meeting ended at 5:30 and obviously 75 people would now head into the dining room, so I went to my room and had my other can of mushroom soup and a sandwich. One number reported today was that although the CH contract promises 3 meals a day, the average resident only eats 1.8 meals a day, on average. Well today for me, that was 0.0 meals in the dining room, although 1.8 is a pretty good average for me.

Neighbor Brian reported the DVD player on the 11th floor wouldn’t play blu-ray discs. I went up after supper and tried it, and yes, it plays DVDs fine but gags on blu-rays. Hopefully one of the resident committees has money to buy a new one.